I’m a man with pointy A cups, and if I don’t wear a bra or binder, they’re noticeable even under a regular shirt. I’d really love to have a soft B cup with more fullness and movement, but I’m not sure how easy that would be to hide in everyday life.
The idea of having more is exciting, but I also want to be able to conceal them comfortably in normal situations. Has anyone else reached this crossroads — where your original goal was an A cup, but now you’re wanting more and feeling stuck about what to do?
If you’ve been there, I’d really appreciate hearing your experience.
I’m currently engaged, and my fiancée loves my breasts — she plays with them often during intimacy. At the same time, I know there are moments, like around family, when she (and I) would probably prefer that they’re less noticeable.
Male presenting person can get a LOT forgiven with boobs. Way more than most people think. Boobs will not be that obvious so easily, it requires a lot to enter the uncanny valley of gender expression. People are blind to it for the longest time. Also, why the is it something to be so afraid of?
I think everybody should be way more brave and free to express their non 100% hyper end of gender expression as very few people are that extreme anyway. I would love to say something about frail egos and patriarchal "order" of gender expression which is being gatekept like its a holy relic and a taboo. Taboos are meant to be broken. Fuck the rules.
Where to stop is probably when I can't get any bigger bra or that my boobs hide my fupa or something like that. xD lol. Or maybe when my back tells its starting to be too much to carry.
I believe everyone who wants boob should be free to do with it what ever they want without fearing some "what others think" bs., then again, to a lot of people, presentation and appearances are so important and gender bending is hated and frowned upon. It sucks, I say grow boobs, break rules, be yourself.
(02-03-2026, 08:56 AM)Mindhak Wrote: I’m a man with pointy A cups, and if I don’t wear a bra or binder, they’re noticeable even under a regular shirt. I’d really love to have a soft B cup with more fullness and movement, but I’m not sure how easy that would be to hide in everyday life.
The idea of having more is exciting, but I also want to be able to conceal them comfortably in normal situations. Has anyone else reached this crossroads — where your original goal was an A cup, but now you’re wanting more and feeling stuck about what to do?
If you’ve been there, I’d really appreciate hearing your experience.
I’m currently engaged, and my fiancée loves my breasts — she plays with them often during intimacy. At the same time, I know there are moments, like around family, when she (and I) would probably prefer that they’re less noticeable.
Nothing wrong with having them just means you fit into more femboy or non binary category is all. I'm same love having boobs but not planning to go full transition its a life choice and if you want your body with male and female traits then go for it! No need to be ashamed either
It sounds like, well, you said it actually, is that you would like a little more fullness. You currently have someone who loves your breasts now, so it would be safe to assume she will love them if they are a little fuller as well. As for being able to conceal them, lot's of men have quite large"manboobs" these days, so they most likely would not cause much more undue attention under your shirts than they get. We often think people notice or care more than we think they do. If they did get to a more noticeable size, well, it is what you really wanted after all, isn't it. Your Fiancée loves them, that's all that would matter to me, if it were my situation.
(This post was last modified: 02-03-2026, 12:35 PM by Shirazmn.)
Hi Mindhak
I tried to go back to your other treads to see what you look like and I can't really judge by what I see. I see a really skinny picture from 2024 and a boobier but chubbier one from 2026. I was trying to understand if you could get away with what you have just saying that they are "moobs". I think so but, to be honest, I can't be 100% sure.
I am one of the many guys who "just wanted an A cup"... "obviously not as big as a B cup" ... "maybe a full B would be fun" ... "I wonder what a C cup feels like" ... "The calculator now says I need a D cup bra, might as well fill it" ... etc...
The fact is that growing boobs tastes like freedom, particularly if our SO (wife, GF, etc...) accepts it. Personally, I always draw the lines in all my "experiments" at "When it's not fun anymore and the worries outweight the fun". I used that meter for my crossdressig. When I was worry-free I could push more and wear feminine stuff in my everyday life, then I bought a house and I was worried my neighbours could see me, so I only started wearing at home, then I had a kid and when he was a toddler I limited myself to yoga pants and ballerinas, and now that he is older I must be even more careful both inside and outside the house to make sure he doesn't get any strange looks because "his dad is weird". I described all of this because I think it mirrors your peer pressure with your family.
I definitely have moobs rather than feminine boobs. I can get away with them easily although they do make my chest tent out a lot in any men's t-shirt. There is no hiding that my chest points out. But I went to swim at the swimming poiol with my son and nothing was said. There are guys out there with much larger boobs than I have (and much rounder... envy!!!). Yes, I have to accept that I don't have the classic male body anymore, but the fact that I am aging a bit (I am 46) and that I am not very skinny helps dissimulating.
You say that you fiancee loves your breasts. Does she know that you are growing them intentionally? If so, she could simply be onboard when you see your families, and dismiss the larger shape with a "Yeah, he put on weight". This would be harder if/when your boobs become full and feminine and your nipples and areolas change shape, but it you "wear your boobs like a man" it's unlikely that anybody would say anything about them or about you.
I think that, going back to my meter, you should ask yourself why you are growing breasts and what size would give you what you want. An A cup can already give you some feelings about what it's like to have them, and most certainly your nipples are now more sensitive than before. What would a B cup give you that would excuse the peer pressure? What would a C cup do for you and how does that compare with what you have today and how would it fit into your life?
If you can work around all of this and/or if your GF is on board, then keep growing as much as you think will still be fun. If you get anxiety instead of happiness, then it's probably better to stop.
(02-03-2026, 08:56 AM)Mindhak Wrote: I’m a man with pointy A cups, and if I don’t wear a bra or binder, they’re noticeable even under a regular shirt. I’d really love to have a soft B cup with more fullness and movement, but I’m not sure how easy that would be to hide in everyday life.
The idea of having more is exciting, but I also want to be able to conceal them comfortably in normal situations. Has anyone else reached this crossroads — where your original goal was an A cup, but now you’re wanting more and feeling stuck about what to do?
If you’ve been there, I’d really appreciate hearing your experience.
I’m currently engaged, and my fiancée loves my breasts — she plays with them often during intimacy. At the same time, I know there are moments, like around family, when she (and I) would probably prefer that they’re less noticeable.
Hello Mindhak ,
Last October I spent a week vacationing in Florida and spent a day at one of those big water parks .
After seeing so many men with boobs, moobs , giant pecs , or whatever you would like to call those things bulging out from
your chest , I was no longer intimidated taking my shirt off in public .
I mean I saw every size , shape , young, old and in between with much larger chest then mine .
You know what , nobody cared ! Everyone was having a grand old time and nobody starred or cared !
I was so nervous going there , my stomach was in knots when I arrived , but the problem was in my own head !
After an hour there I realized people come in so many sizes and shapes and nobody is judging you .
If I showed up in a 2 piece bikini I'm sure I would have gotten a few looks but dressed as a man , nothing .
If you are not flaunting your breasts you are going to be fine no matter where you are .
I say gender norms are a trap and a lot of guys are scared to death that their masculinity gets a dent somehow. Boobs shouldn't be sexualised nor gendered in any way. Everyone has them, only difference is how developed they are. And boobs on men should be socially accepted. Being androgynous should be socially accepted.
Its been said or hinted at few times, most people will not care about how much tits you have. Anything outside averages will get looks, but then what? Who cares? I think everybody should do with their bodies as they wish, when it brings happiness, that's all that matters. Policing sex characteristics is outdated and stupid.
Boob greed is a real deal, and guys get way more forgiven about their looks than women do. Boobs on a guy isn't that weird at all. Its also not pulling in as much attention because no one is presuming to see boobs on a man, so a lot flies under the radar. Most of the fears voiced out here are quite insignificant. Its not like a man with some titty will get hatecrimed or raped for having them. Its all the others who should worry.
For me, pre-transition (and otherwise), my goal with breast growth was to obtain whatever size my body gave me. Even when I took cold-turkey breaks from PM, permanently stopping with NBE was never an idea I contemplated. Over the years when I was presenting as male, I did get some comments from people: some were rude, others were a bit surprised (since my boobs looked like breasts instead of moobs). It's very possible other people noticed but said nothing (or at least, not within earshot of me). I also got some questions/concerns from doctors as well as a diagnosis of gynecomastia. One doctor wanted to check there wasn't anything wrong with my liver, the other wanted to verify if another doctor had already talked to me about my gynecomastia.
I think having a supportive partner is a huge win as far as if you choose to continue your NBE journey.
I went all in with no regrets. Being male and presenting male with breasts is ok, if that’s how you feel. Personally I don’t worry about what people think. It’s your life. Enjoy it. I am with no regrets
(This post was last modified: 02-03-2026, 11:22 PM by Mindhak.)
Thank you all for your feedback. This is me now. Yes my fiancee knows, she picked up my prescription for the estrogen. She wants me to stay a man though but loves my boobs
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