9 hours ago
Hello again
I am not sure how to help with sharing with your wife and doctor. I know that it's not easy: my wife knows that I crossdress yet I never had the guts to tell her that I want to grow breasts (well, that I am doing it...).
Telling the doctor in theory should be the easier one of the two, because they are bind to secrecy. Yet, I know the ocean of feelings that flood one's brain when thinking to do so.
Tomi66 is right in saying that BO is probably safer. It seems to have a more "rounded" effect in feminizing the whole body rather than just the breasts and it may be what you are after. Since the effects don't happen overnight, it may be a very good way to try if body feminization is what you really want. You'd be the one spotting the early signs of feminization well before anyone else does, and you could stop at that point if you change your mind.
Since you already have a B cup, your wife and doctor are probably already used to the idea that you have gynecomastia, so a couple of millimetres more on your bust would not raise suspicion.
The rest of the body takes a lot longer that the chest to feminise. Hips take forever, so they are definitely not a problem at the beginning. Even the breasts take months before showing any sign of growth. The only immediate change will be that your skin becomes a lot softer, but I have yet to see a woman who complains about that when cuddling.
I am not sure how to help with sharing with your wife and doctor. I know that it's not easy: my wife knows that I crossdress yet I never had the guts to tell her that I want to grow breasts (well, that I am doing it...).
Telling the doctor in theory should be the easier one of the two, because they are bind to secrecy. Yet, I know the ocean of feelings that flood one's brain when thinking to do so.
Tomi66 is right in saying that BO is probably safer. It seems to have a more "rounded" effect in feminizing the whole body rather than just the breasts and it may be what you are after. Since the effects don't happen overnight, it may be a very good way to try if body feminization is what you really want. You'd be the one spotting the early signs of feminization well before anyone else does, and you could stop at that point if you change your mind.
Since you already have a B cup, your wife and doctor are probably already used to the idea that you have gynecomastia, so a couple of millimetres more on your bust would not raise suspicion.
The rest of the body takes a lot longer that the chest to feminise. Hips take forever, so they are definitely not a problem at the beginning. Even the breasts take months before showing any sign of growth. The only immediate change will be that your skin becomes a lot softer, but I have yet to see a woman who complains about that when cuddling.