@tomi66 i am not trolling, i'm serious. i get that you identify as a person with two sides, and that is beautiful and valid. what i don't agree with is you trying to diminish the term "cis", which is a specific term for specific context. being cis is just a term for when your gender identity matches the sex you were assigned at birth. the opposite of that is trans, which is just a term for when your gender identity doesn't match the sex you were assigned at birth. it's not an identity itself.
as an intersex woman, who was assigned "male" at birth, that makes me transgender. it doesn't take away anything from my identity as a woman. if i was an intersex man, assigned male at birth, that would make me cisgender despite being intersex. nonbinary exists somewhere in between, but as they're assigned either F or M at birth, that makes nonbinary people also transgender *in this context*.
it's up to you to decide what your gender identity looks like, and whether that matches your assigned sex at birth (which causes a lot of pain, because we still assign either F or M to everyone, and it hurts NB and two-spirited people for example), and what terms you use when talking about it. but people using the terms "cis" or "trans" is not derogatory, and trying to erase those terms is harmful to everyone as long as we keep assigning sex instead of just letting people declare their gender.
as an intersex woman, who was assigned "male" at birth, that makes me transgender. it doesn't take away anything from my identity as a woman. if i was an intersex man, assigned male at birth, that would make me cisgender despite being intersex. nonbinary exists somewhere in between, but as they're assigned either F or M at birth, that makes nonbinary people also transgender *in this context*.
it's up to you to decide what your gender identity looks like, and whether that matches your assigned sex at birth (which causes a lot of pain, because we still assign either F or M to everyone, and it hurts NB and two-spirited people for example), and what terms you use when talking about it. but people using the terms "cis" or "trans" is not derogatory, and trying to erase those terms is harmful to everyone as long as we keep assigning sex instead of just letting people declare their gender.