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HN-I think this thread is still very relevant. Manue brought up her own case of transphobia (intentionally being misgendered). 

To quote your own post (in response to my inquiry about how to make BN a safe space):

Transphobia will be confronted promptly and without hesitation. 

This is exactly what has happened in this thread. As ironic as it is, I think this is a compelling piece of evidence of how much BN is a safe space. 

As far as people ganging up on you, I feel like there are definite reasons for this. You called Shirazmn a bigot over a disagreement. You misgendered Manue over a disagreement. You're doubling down over not apologizing to Manue for the misgendering. I don't think anyone here is trying to gaslight you. Instead, I suspect people are upset with your behavior. As far as I can tell, the only one who resorted to name-calling in this thread is you. 

prostatenipple-I think you made a very good point in a previous post about apologies and building bridges. Mutual respect is very important here, especially for personal/sensitive topics discussed on the forum such as growing breasts, transitioning, seeking acceptance from partner/family, etc.

I don't feel you're adding to the fire, at least, not in a bad way. I think it's important that everyone (cis, trans, etc.) express their opinion(s) here. 

In regards to mods, I think we do have them, otherwise, none of the spam postings would be deleted.