[Manue]

I don't remember things that happened on Discord years ago and I don't care to remember either, but thanks for the reminder... I'm not a shining beacon of perfection and I must have been really pissed off about something to misgender you. 

You found dirt on me. I'm a horrible pot for calling kettle black. It must be a moment which absolutely condemns me forever. 

EDIT:
Manue btw, why are you trying to make this personal? Why are you trying to make me look bad? Some old grudge from Discord from several years ago? If this thread gets personal, I'm going to stop posting, ask Eve to lock the thread and cocentrate on other topics or do something else entirely. I will not go into some ridiculously naive schoolyard bulluying scenario where people start to dig details and old stuff to make things personal, or start name calling or what ever.... I don't have energy or time for that. I rather do some boring ass adult shit than go into flame wars with asshats.

HN, this wasn’t personal. You framed this thread around misgendering and “safe space,” so I brought up a relevant prior interaction where you misgendered me and then banned me from your Discord after a disagreement.

Your response doesn’t include an apology, and instead dismisses it as “dirt,” questions my motives, calls people “asshats,” and threatens to ask for the thread to be locked. That’s exactly the kind of selective accountability this thread is supposedly addressing.

For completeness: after the ban, third parties contacted me urging me to apologize for stating my position after answering your question. I’m not re-litigating Discord. I’m pointing out consistency: if misgendering is unacceptable here, it should be unacceptable when you do it too.