[Heaven's Night]

Where does the road take me, that I do not know, but where ever that is, I'll be wearing a bra when I hit that road and do so with a smile, come hell or high water.

@HelloDiDi - thanks so much for sharing this. I really enjoyed reading it and learning more about your story. Parts of this really resonated with me, especially your experiences about bullying and finding your own strength in the face of it.  I also like how you describe that evolution of gender identify into something with attributes of both genders. I’ve been thinking a lot about that recently too, and am also becoming more attracted with the ‘non-binary’ path - not shooting for a particular gender ideal, but rather finding that balance of what I’m most comfortable with. Some parts of my ‘guy’ side I love and want to keep, too.

I hope all the best for you in 2021

You welcome. <3 I thought this would be of interest here too. I've always been a dudette, somewhere in between. But I haven't ruled out a complete transition either, been thinking of it lately more than ever. But for now I'm quite happy about life and where things are heading.

Funny that you mention balance... That's been my motto for years, "balance in all things." Ties up with playing drums even.